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bs027
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PathStep 27 Compassion hearts212 Forum posts9 Forum upvotes17 Current upvotes17 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2025 Member sinceJuly 30, 2024
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Hello everyone, I'm happy to be here. I joined 7 cups because I was entering a bit of a blue period. Things have improved though, I still feel tired every now and then but slowly I take some steps and one day I would like to be able to listen to someone like I am listened to. Take rest and take care of yourselves, hugs💜

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Maybe I can be split in a half?
General Support / by bs027
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 Friday
...See more Hi everyone, I'm trying to process what I'm about to write, I'm very disoriented. I hope you can understand me and I ask you for kindness… Today I feel melancholic, it's the birthday of a boy I was in love with. We haven't spoken anymore and I haven't looked at his social media because I put up a wall, he meant a lot to me in our dating but I had to put a full stop because he had started to keep me in limbo, not very nice and I felt bad about it, I never saw him again to clarify but I put the full stop by stopping being interested in his life. He decided to wish me a happy birthday anyway, months ago, even though our relationship had become non-existent because of my stance. I decided to wish him a happy birthday too because I'm damn stubborn and I feel the need to give everything back (even ten cents offered). Bad idea. I fell back into this melancholy and it had never happened to me so much that I moved on and fell in love again, I love my boyfriend and I love being with him. Tonight however I felt like this, I feel torn in half, is it possible? Is it pride? The treatment I received? I am very confused. At the same time I have no doubts about the person I am with, my love and my best friend. I am confused that I feel this way and that I went to peek at the social media of this guy from the past, noticing all the things I had not seen about this person, even his relationship (I already knew but I had turned back and was not interested in the matter, he got together with this girl after a while of starting to avoid me). What to do? How to move with this feeling? I am afraid, is it possible to love two people at the same time? Or does it just hurt the idea of ​​a person I respected? I know I deserve more but I'm torn in half. Thoughts? Sorry for my English. A hug for everyone
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Maybe there’s something else?
ADHD Support / by bs027
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 1 day ago
...See more Hi every one, I’m new in this community and I’d like to share my journey. Recently my therapist told me that maybe I could be an adhd person because my profile is similar to this disease. How to deal with situation. It’s all new to me. I still have some tests to go through but this therapist is very convinced of this. I often can't turn off my brain and I feel like I'm sinking into all my commitments. Do you have any advice? I apologize if there are mistakes but I'm not a native speaker. Have a good day, bye!🩷
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