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Women's Issues / by resilience2025

2 days ago

...See more Heyaaaaaaa You Beautiful & Confident Women of All Times! Introducing myself, I am Resilience! 🤗 I have been a woman myself and this "International Women's Day", I find the perfect opportunity to support you in leveraging your inner power leading to becoming the best version of yourself! So, my lovely ladies, what I am gonna state here can be quite discomforting and unrealistic to you! I guess it's been for most of us because of the upbringing and social mindset we are brought up in! But I tell you, perceptions and patterns developed over a long time period are always uncomfortable! Only those who have the courage to be who they are meant to be, take up the tougher, unpredictable and "practically impossible" pathway! So, the choice is always yours! Do you wish to settle or compromise for the less or do you keep your standards high enough and automatically get them respected by the rightest people in your life! I would ask you some questions! You don't need to answer them here but ask yourself internally and be honest to your authentic self! How many times have you blamed yourself or felt guilty for disappointing others by disagreeing with them? How many times have you over-explained yourself to people to seek validation? How many times have you not spoken up and stood for yourself when your heart was actually shouting for it? How many times have you said yes when actually your body was crying to say no? How many times have you heard in life, be the good girl? How many times have you felt being unheard, taken for granted and running behind people to seek assurance? How many times have you waited for the perfect moment to speak up for yourself? How many times have you stopped yourself from asserting just because you felt you were unprepared? How many times have you felt that standing up for yourself makes you arrogant or selfish? Ladies, I can write a series of questions like these! Now, this post is not for those who have adapted themselves to live life this way and silenced their inner potential that will remain unlocked! But for those who have made the very powerful choice to change themselves and unlock their latent power that can disrupt the status quo! This day is a celebration of all the women who are bold, confident, assertive and secure! This day is a celebration of all the women who know that they are enough, and they have always been enough! This day is a celebration of all the women who exercise their freedom to choose, to make decisions for their life and who know that they are allowed to be themselves, to take space when needed! This day is a celebration of all the women who respect and love themselves first radiating the same to the world out there! This day is a celebration of all the women who are clear and don't betray their truest selves for external assurance! This day is a celebration of all the women who believe that they are magnets for the right people, people who consider them equals, respect them not for being a pleaser but for being who they are authentically! This day is a celebration of all the women who make people realize that their existence is a privilege, and their availability comes at a cost, the cost of respect! This day is a celebration of all the women who know what they deserve is nothing less than their standards! This day is a celebration of all the women who support and inspire rather than hide and escape! Don't let your inner power die calling out for a change that just requires a bit of courage! Ladies, if you don't stand up for yourself, nobody will do it for you! So, fly high with your dreams and let your confidence radiate out to the world not as an outcome of superficiality but deep internal transformation! Let your walk into the room be full of true humble yet brave boldness! Don't let your soul dwell on frustration and being stuck for not doing what you should have done! So, when you realize this, start now! Don't overthink, don't wait for the right moment, just do it now! Take one step ahead and be the woman who leaves a legacy behind to be cherished for generations to come! Be the woman you look up to! Why wait for others when you have it all in you?💓 Regards, Resilience! 💞💞

Nothing Is Wrong At This Moment!💌

Positivity & Gratitude / by resilience2025

3 days ago

...See more Heyaaaaa You Hopeful People! 💗 I hope you all have been keeping well! I am here to share some insights about courage, hope and healing when growth strikes us! This will be a long post! So, I would appreciate your resilience to read it till the end! 🤗 Growth comes at a cost! It brings a lot of discomfort. When I talk about Growth, I mean all problems that emerge as opportunities/challenges to learn from and implement them in our future set of actions. Have you been in a situation when you felt that yeah, I faced this problem back then and now I am in the same discomfort probably with much more intensity again? I am sure you might have! So, Lesson Number 1, Don't escape or defer problems when they come to you because if you don't deal with them now, you will have to deal with it with more difficulty in the future or probably, you might never get the chance to deal with it? What a blunder we would do right? Deliberately choosing to not unlock our hidden potential! When Growth comes, discomfort comes and there are times our mental and emotional muscles struggle to manage that! It brings with it anxiety, overthinking, procrastination, escapism, unprocessed emotions etc. To know more about anxiety, you can refer @AshleyNFlewellenLPC post in the 7 cups online therapy forum land! While all this happens, we fail to manage everything in life that we used to be doing. And a chain reaction of getting drowned into the dark starts! But there's just one thing that keeps all of us alive during the most painful times we felt we could never have endured? That is Hope! So, Lesson Number 2, Sustain Hope! Hope is an emotion that finds possibility and discards practicality! Hope is an emotion that believes when it's unbelievable! Hope is an emotion that says you, you can do this! I am powerful! See, I am still standing when everything feels shaken! When we start altering our negativity bias by replacing it with hopeful positive thoughts, we create our own light amidst all darkness! However, only Hope does not sustain and complete the growth process! So, Lesson 3, Build Courage to develop Courage! Courage is something that brings you to action! That thrills you internally saying, "It's done now! Get over your low zone! And wake up! It's a new day! It's your life and if you don't start now, nobody will do it for you!" Remaining in that zone brings no good feelings but when you take action, nature starts to support you in the process! Yes, Life is a Lesson! It brings us phases we think we can never endure but ultimately, the brave people go through it, face it boldly, don't run away from it but stay, hold and survive the pain! And believe me, the Universe comes to your rescue no matter however long this pain might feel, everything just comes down to good! And if it isn't it's not the end! I have been through this phase recently! There were things which were not within my control that I started thinking on! Got into an overthinking trap, built fears over my faith, tragic reflections from the past occurred and when they were looking deep into my eyes, I couldn't at first! However, now I realize that yeah! I got over that! I have hope and belief! But I get to build the courage to start again! There have been zero days in my life for some time now! But, if I can say myself that I can, I actually can! You know why did I write this? Because I know we all struggle during these phases! But I will just remind you that, "No matter how much ever pain you are in, how much ever bad and ugly life looks to you, remember, it's not the reality but just your current perception of the reality!" We act based on what we know until we know more! Listen to your heart's wisdom and discard your head's ego, fears and insecurities! Your heart knows faith, but your head reminds you of your fears! Your heart knows what is right, but your head directs you to take up the wrong! Your heart is your real soul, and your head is created by the limiting beliefs of our external influences! Your heart looks for possibility over your head that looks for practicality! Trust your instincts over your intelligence! Trust your intuition over your reason! Discovering all this is a process which takes time and so patience and embracing imperfections/uncertainty during this time is equally important! Here, Lesson Number 4! So, my lovely hearts! 💘 Don't ever forget how powerful you are! And how much the Universe supports you when you are all alone but transforming into a bigger, giant and beautifully gorgeous version of you! And you are unique so your journey will be! I will soon share some insights on how we can practically navigate the growth process! Regards, Resilience💕

Let's Love Ourselves Deeply!💝💝

Positivity & Gratitude / by resilience2025

March 2nd

...See more Heyaaaaa You Hopeful People! I hope you all have been keeping well! Thankyouuu for all the beautiful, heartfelt messages you had sent, it made my heart smile so much and my life felt really upbeat! Today, I am here with a question! What will be that one lovely, caring and compassionate message you would send to yourself, all wrapped and rolled in a cylindrical wooden box with your favorite cartoon character smiling over it! Telling you that You are the best! 😁 Self-love is one of the most basic necessities for actually living a confident persona! When we love ourselves, we radiate positivity, hope, healing and life for thousands of people out there! And I believe self-love leading to self-confidence makes you the most attractive personality ever! So, I start here, and we will continue this! Done? Yes Done! You got to get this done today! I trust you for this! The pigeon comes and gives me this cylindrical wooden box with a heartfelt note wrapped in it and Shinchan engraved on the box! "Resi, you are doing a great job! Believe me! No matter how much less it seems, less is more sometimes! And you get to appreciate yourself for the long way you have come! Life brought you so much but see, you portrayed better strength, better understanding and better courage every time! You are a strong, bold and emotionally intelligent woman, I am so proud of! You were better every time! That is what matters right? So, keep going! Have the courage to change what you can and the wisdom to know the difference! I love you Resi! Let your inner power leave a legacy behind with lessons that create a history cherished by generations ahead"💓 Looking forward to your self love! Let's see who unfolds the most fantastic self-caring note! And leaves a lasting impression with bold confidence! Regards, Resilience!

The Beauty Of This Community 💕

Positivity & Gratitude / by resilience2025

March 3rd

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Positivity & Gratitude / by resilience2025

February 1st

...See more Heyaaaa You Hopeful People! ❤️ I hope you all are keeping well! I am here today to share my heart out with you pretty hearts! With a hope that some sad heart might feel alive again! With a hope that some solution seeking heart might get a solution again! With a hope to rejuvenate hope amongst you all! Belief! What is belief all about? Human minds are framed to look for negativity bias when struck with adversity! While adversities are a natural part of life! Yet some people manage them so well while others struggle to do it! Success has transformed into something that's all about reaching a destination! And there's a stark difference between steps to success and success defined as a destination itself! Every destination is reached by a predefined idealistic process! A process that's shaped by the average of all successful people who traversed that path! And something which is taught to us! Yes, examples are important in life to seek inspiration and find our new unique ways to rise up each step! Mind it, not a destination! But sometimes, we overpower ourselves with the ideal process vigorously! We start assessing our progress based on the report card of another successful candidate! We stop finding ways to make things better just because they didn't work the way they should! Unnatural Resistance builds up! And that's where the belief is gone! And inaction creeps in! While it is important to keep up with adversities in life and grow upon them! It is also important that we refuel ourselves with a new energy and internally keep believing that one bad day doesn't determine our life's outcomes! Patience is a key to a successful life! And Belief is what keeps us going in times of adversities! Belief is what makes us self compassionate and resilient in bad times! So yeah! The third post on the series Embracing Changes! ❤️😉 I'm honestly enjoying this! My brain keeps looking for ways to embrace changes just because I get an opportunity to share my heart out with you all! Thank youuuuuuuu Loveliess💗 So the message is simple, clear and sweet! Trust yourself and Trust the process! So come on! Let's all get into a comfortable position wherever we are! And 1,2,3..speak the forthcoming affirmations to yourself! I am strong! I am brave and bold! I am whole! I am abundant! I am a leader who is born to make a difference in the world that exists! This world needs my light to shine and glow more 🌸 I am confident and loved! Life is all yours! It's waiting to be yours! Just keep going and know when to stop to refuel your engine! Never lose hope! Never lose belief! Know that it's your unique journey which will become an inspiration in the future! It's your history that you are writing yourself with the support of the Almighty which will become a legacy to be cherished for years, decades, centuries and millennia! Wish you a pretty day ahead and if it's night, a restful sleep as well 😊🌹 Regards, Yours Resilience 🫂💗

Do You Do This?

General Support / by resilience2025

January 30th

...See more Heyaaaa You Hopeful People ❤️ I hope you all are keeping well! So here I am! 😁 With a Question!! Question!! Question!! In an environment of intense competition and comparison all around us, the nature of personal and professional progress/growth has changed. How? Let's see some examples! "Don't share this information with anybody! We will tell this ourselves and impress the boss" "Never share your notes with anybody, what if they become a topper like you?" "Keep things private, never share your intentions with anybody! You can lose something by sharing your vulnerabilities!" So, I guess you all know right, what am I talking about? Well, progress has changed from community based and collective growth to individual intellect and secrecy bags! Aren't we losing leaders in our society? Because I strongly believe leaders are those who transform their vision into a reality! They are open hearted, they share their most vulnerable experiences so that the world learns from them! They care for the people and they strongly believe in collaboration! I have met a lot of leaders here on 7 cups! I really appreciate all of you! ❤️ For who you all are! But it's important that we consciously think about this to inculcate social intelligence! Q. What do you think about this? Do you agree that we are shifting to a secrecy culture? Please do mention the reason for whatever answer you chosen Q. Do you think that we should keep things (any information, including personal life experiences/career intentions or information etc) private to us? What are those things we shouldn't share with anybody and why? Q. Who do you call a leader? And how can we become leaders in our society? Waiting for your answers! Come on! Let's know what do we think about this! Click up the reply tab and type down! I'm waiting! Won't take much effort my family! Regards, Resilience ❤️

The Life You Are Seeking Is All Your Way!

Positivity & Gratitude / by resilience2025

January 29th

...See more Heyyaaa You Hopeful People! 💗 I hope you all are keeping well! Well, this post is a part of the series on the theme I started a week or two ago on Embracing Change The last few days had been really stressful for me! I experienced a bad burnout! Had been feeling nothing inside me! It happens right? We all know that something or the other is not right with us! But how to get it right is something that doesn't reach us! I felt directionless as if I lost my purpose! Had been sleeping for hours! And let's not exaggerate that more 😂🥰 But then my story brought me a vibing, positive and amazing climax! And I thought why not share it out with my pretty family on 7 cups! The situations I talk about are quite normal so what's so different? I understand your butterfly 🦋 like queries! But I tell, everything that caused this was a chaotic emotional upheaval that took a toll on me! If you ask me, what lesson did this leave me with in a one liner! I would say! Today, I realise, Life is the most beautiful blessing on us! Life is all about embracing everything that comes our way! Life is a lifelong learning itself! Life is more than we think it is! I read it in the amazing book The 5 AM Club by Robin Sharma! "Nothing is wrong at this moment even if it feels like everything's falling apart. If you feel your life's a mess right now, it's simply because your fears are just a little stronger than your faith ❤️ 💪" Yes, I know when the pain strikes you, it hits you bad at your heart, your mind and soul gets shaken, your head pains, you feel frustrated and lost, you feel like badly crying out! But I tell you, Bad times don't stay long as simply as Good times don't! And why do we categorise "Bad and Good" as two polar opposites! Aren't they equally important for a grateful and humane existence? Aren't our listeners on 7 cups here because their bad times transformed them to be kind and considerate towards the concerns of the world out there! I really thank them for what they do for us! 🥺❤️🫂 Bad and Good is complementary in nature! If we don't have the bad, we will never ever realise the joy and beauty of the good! 😊 So how do we go about navigating the tough phases in our life! Reminding ourselves something! I use the analogy of Cricket, "Life is not always about hitting the ball, sometimes life hits to check your patience" When the toughest phases of life strike you, be self compassionate, tell yourself that Growth is never linear and setbacks are a part of the progress! (Heard it in a podcast) Self compassion will make you more resilient! Even if you feel negative, try to replace it with a different thought pattern! Like the CBT Therapy shared by one of our listeners on 7 cups. Remember lessons sync gradually! Be patient in the process! And take action towards your healing and clarity as soon as your mindset improves! (We will discuss this later in detail) I tell you, faith in the process is highly important in life! Knowing and repeatedly telling yourself that "Everything is happening for a good reason!" Remember when we were children? We used to fall down but rise back up again only to find that we as children never lost heart and courage! There was no embarassment! No fears! What we did have was high degree resilience and maturity to know that I will keep trying no matter whatever comes my way! 💕 So why did we lose our immature maturity when we became adults? Ending it here and more on the way! I will conclude with the most beautiful quote I ever heard of! Embarassment is the cost of entry. If you are not willing to look like a foolish beginner, you will never become a graceful master! Grace is growth! And human nature resists it! So the choice is always yours! What do you want to chose? Regards, Resilience

Wow! Let's Know What Does This Mean To Us?

General Support / by resilience2025

January 23rd

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