👂 I am Vanessa and I would be delighted to listen to you.

👂🙅‍♀️I DO NOT LISTEN TO:

Any discussions of sexual nature.

I have been considerate of this in the past. I am aware that there are people who genuinely need help coming to terms with sexual dilemmas. But a lot of the members I've spoken to about sexual topics take advantage of this and start pushing the boundaries to the point of inappropriateness, oftentimes asking me for "advice" on things beyond my breadth or expecting me to engage in their fantasies by way of me listening. If I find that this is the route our conversation is going, I will recommend you to other people and I will be closing the chat. There are people out there who need genuine help. I do not appreciate supposed "members" who waste listener time to indulge on getting off sexually in the guise of seeking mental help when there are people out there who truly need someone to talk to. 

A B O U T     M E 

I am a long time 7-cups listener that went on hiatus! When I first started being a listener, I was a college student, and now I am finally working full-time as a software engineer and have returned to this place to do something more fulfilling other than work! Not much has changed other than the fact that I've enjoyed reading books and am now a cat mom, working full-time, and getting married!

I still sing and listen to music for endless hours. I still enjoy traveling and I still love food (maybe even more so now). And I'm still the same old listener.

To all of my previous, regular chat buds who are still here, I do deeply apologize for disappearing for a long period of time. I needed to take some time away to get my own life in order. But I'm back!

So strip off your masks, shoot me a message, and let's talk the negativity away! ❤️