My older children haven’t seen me in over 11 years
I went to see my son yesterday he was at his friends I gave my aunt my number and she said it’s his decision I’ve been trying to get involved in my kids life for about a year now none of them want anything to do with me!!!!
@crimsonPenguin2489
I am sorry you are going through this. Estrangement as it goes on is very hard to rectify. Often people do not have the exact reason or thing that caused the separation but the version in their mind has solidified because there was no one there to make them remember there are always two sides to a story or argument.
If there is anyone neutral in middle perhaps you could send a letter and say anything you want to then you can know you tried some simply do not want to reconnect as it is a reminder the division was both ways.... MOST people do not like acknowledging if they were wrong.