My journey through a break up
Just broke up with someone whom I deeply love and it is tearing away a part of yourself. The pain comes in waves—one moment, I feel strong, knowing my worth, and the next, I’m drowning in memories, regrets, and the fear of losing her forever. Im struggling with questions like : Did I do enough? Will she ever come back? Is she moving on faster than me?
I tried everything to hold on—showing my love, proving my worth—but she was slipping away. Now, I’m learning to accept that love can’t be forced. It hurts to think of her in a new city, surrounded by new people, while I’m here, in the same familiar places that remind me of her. The fear of her finding someone else haunts me.
Some days, I want to reach out, to fix what’s broken. Other days, I understand that space is necessary. I’m focusing on healing, even though every song, every road, every small thing reminds me of her. I don’t have all the answers yet but I hope I'll never regret this decision...
She has been the best thing to ever happen in my life and she will be... When I'm sad I'm lost so I hope you guys could help me in any way you could
@Iamdata
Hi, so sorry to hear this. Breakups are awful and can leave us feeling so many raw emotions.
It sounds like you’ve done your best but now it’s time to think what you can do, to make you happy. That’s not to say you’ll ever forget what you had with her, but look at moving on and finding new happiness. Take each day at a time and remember to be kind to yourself.