Genuine Feelings
Hello, how can you say if your feelings and her feelings towards each other are genuine? List some signs.
Btw, it's about romantic feelings to your loveones?
@Uncertain20
That is the issue there is not one checklist to go down and check off..... i think what made me feel the way i do to my partner may not apply to others and i really do not think many of us can be 100 percent sure of the feelings others have towards us....
trust is the biggest feeling i think applies to most relationships real deep trust that you are willing to risk putting yourself out there.
Ah see, so for you is trust, it's the basic foundation, right? Thanks for replying 😊
Don't follow your feelings. Follow the values u set for yourself and what values you expect from your partner to have or express . This will make u level up
Wisdom
What you mean wisdom?
Absolutely correct. You're on point 👍
There's is no way you can understand this. You only know about your feelings and know they are genuine they will pretend to love you in order to use you and you are thinking they love you but no they are not. They are making fun of your genuine feeling by cheating on you.
@shyWalker6995
unfortunate if this is your experience. Not for everyone though
I gave him all my love I always thought he also have a genuine feeling but it turns out he's just pretended and now I'm thinking each every moment and thinking whether that was true or not tell me if you have any thermometer or something and how can I know atleast the moment we are together are fake or real
@shyWalker6995
that's a tricky situation. For me, I say that trust grows over time. You need to save your trust at first. Then as you are together for some time, the trust can grow more and more. For each situation it will be a bit different, but that's the general idea.
Here is an article on it:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-couch/202104/how-do-you-know-if-you-can-really-trust-someone?msockid=0919c210a3f2604b04e5d64fa2b861b7
I trust him. I trust him blindly beleive me. But it's just some people take you granted when you give your love and trust completely.
Thanks for articles but nothing can help because sometimes people make you feel differently and show their True colour later. He make me feel loved and also trusted me with things but I don't know suddenly what happened. I'm suffering just because I loved him and trust him.
You have another point too, it's building your trust when as the days gone by.
You have another point too, it's building your trust when as the days gone by.
@Uncertain20
For me
It is Honesty. When people show their genuine feelings and thoughts, it shows how much they care and trust you. Even if honesty hurts sometimes, it shows how much they trust in you to respect their honesty, validate it, and understand. Without honesty, we don’t know how things can run, we don’t know what is real and what isn’t. Without honesty, we cannot see who people are. Honesty allows us to see their pros and cons and how they accept the missing pieces of themselves, revealing the imperfections they may hide from other people. With honesty, we can be vulnerable, we can be imperfect, and we can be whoever we want without deceit and lies. They risk themselves to be susceptible to you. I think for me, honesty defines genuine feelings towards each other.
@Uncertain20 When feelings are real, they don’t just disappear when things get inconvenient. If you find yourself thinking about them even when life is chaotic, and they do the same, that’s a good sign. It’s like having a song stuck in your head, but instead of being annoying, it just makes you smile.
Effort is a big deal. If they actually make time for you instead of just saying, “We should hang out sometime” and then disappearing like a magician, that’s solid. And it goes both ways. If you’re just as excited to put in the effort, something real is brewing.
Feeling safe to be your weirdest, most unfiltered self is a green flag. If you can admit you sometimes eat cereal at midnight or have a playlist dedicated to songs you belt out in the shower, and they still look at you like you’re the best thing ever, jackpot.
Life throws curveballs, and if they stick around when you’re having a rough time instead of ghosting until the storm passes, that says a lot. And if you’re naturally doing the same for them, you might just be each other’s safe place.
A really fun test? See if you genuinely celebrate each other’s wins. If they get a promotion or finally perfect their pancake recipe, do you hype them up like they just won an Olympic medal? And do they do the same for you? If yes, you’ve got something real.
Arguments happen, but it’s about how you handle them. If you can disagree without turning it into a dramatic soap opera and actually try to understand each other, that’s love. No keeping score, no weird power plays, just a genuine effort to work things out and understand each other better. I think this is something that can be worked through too. I know my husband thought that an argument was about having a winner and loser. We worked through that in pretty short order.
And the best sign? You just feel at home with each other. No forced conversations, no pretending to be someone else, just pure, effortless connection. Like finding that perfect hoodie that’s both ridiculously comfortable and makes you look good.
If you are not wholeheartedly YES, then it's a No.
If they are not wholeheartedly YES, it's a No.
