The unfortunate truth that I ran from.

@BlackBlueWhite

Heyya, Blue. That sounds like a rough and isolating experience for you. I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. It takes a lot of courage to share something so deeply personal, especially when you feel unheard or misunderstood. you’ve been reflecting deeply on your experiences, and I appreciate you giving a heads-up and being thoughtful about how your words might affect others.

You’ve shared that you’ve supported others even when it was hard, and that says a lot about your character and your willingness to show kindness even in challenging situations. You've got a good heart. I want to gently say that while I may not always agree with your beliefs, I do respect your right to hold them. Open-mindedness should go both ways, and I get why it hurts when it feels like it doesn’t. It’s okay to have different views, as long as we’re all treating each other with respect.

You deserve to be accepted for you, no matter what. If you ever want to talk more about this or just need someone to listen, I’m here. My PMs are always open. Take care of yourself, okay? You’ve got this. Sending hugs if okayy. 

<3

@BlackBlueWhite

I frankly don't care. As long as you're not trying to be rude to people purposely. I don't understand why people think it's a terrible thing to not be an ally, you don't necessarily have to be an ally to be fine with them, y'know? Anyway, just don't be purposely rude and were chill 😃

@BlackBlueWhite  people gonna find any excuse or unreasonable reason to take u down  thats how the world is but u dont let them get the satisfaction ever   💕 

@BlackBlueWhite  may Allah swt make it easy for u 

Brother I'm brown. N I support you.

As a listener, I've had a few people tell me "thanks for not just telling me to be positive" because a lot of times situations seem helpless and they just want someone to actually listen beyond these constraints of "what is right and open-mindedness"

I even wrote in community around 9months back I think that darkness is also a part of us and should be accepted by us.. I meant something on similar lines.

Hope this finds you well.

@BlackBlueWhite

What I am hearing as I read your post is that you are going through multiple challenges at once and that you are frustrated and overwhelmed by the fact that what you see as perfectly viable solutions to those challenges are still being misunderstood and/or misinterpreted by others. Am I picking that up correctly? The reason I want to clarify whether I understand correctly is because I sometimes feel similar frustrations on a few of the things you've mentioned and I want to be sure I am not blending my own thoughts and feelings with what I believe you are expressing. I have never fully understood the mechanics of it, but there is some sort of innate instinctual human need that compells us to seek out and cleave only to like-minded others, I am guessing it has something to do with banding together in case the T-Rex attacked the village or something, I say that tongue in cheek but just like so many other parts of us that are no longer needed, those instincts can be frustrating and difficult to put away. The good news is that so many are working diligently to put bias and bigotry aside and be genuinely grateful to live and let live as complete individuals, yet still with the security of community. Those of us who have been fortunate enough to be living in the "dawning of the Age of Aquarius" may see it happen yet, so hang in there! 

@BlackBlueWhite I agree with you. Especially that Lgbt stuff, heck yeah. I am also not an ally or anything because I don't see it as normal or natural, like seriously, no offence to anyone but it's my true viewpoint and I cannot/ do not want to change it. I agree with most of the other stuff you mentioned.

So sorry to hear this. I'm not an ally myself and I'm supposed to be queer and poc. I only care about the people in my life. Because I have a lot on my plate health wise. I support humanity and that's it. Again, so sorry you've gone through that. My partner is white, male, straight and probably a conservative. He says a lot of things he doesn't like and doesn't support but he's a good person and deserves respect for his pov and opinions. Doesn't mean you have to agree and that's okay. I say a lot of things he doesn't agree with and we argue but in the end either we close that door and never open it again or we learn something new. That's okay. I hope you find people who would respect you for you not by the labels people are following of today's world in America.

For example, if alot of Queer folks ( I'm Queer but I canr speak for every Queer person ), say alot of us are getting upset with you, chances are you're saying something you might want to unlearn, I'm white so I can't speak for Black, Indigenous, Asian, Latinx, Hispanic, Brown folks, and anyone else I may have not mentioned ( sorry if I haven't mentioned you ) same might apply here too,

I don't know you and chances are you have good intentions, but good intentions aren't an excuse for problematic behaviours

I think maybe sit with yourself and analyze things you've said and see where someone else may be coming from. If people are calling you in, it's not always coming from an attacking place, if you feel attacked, that's on you

I called my sister in on not assuming someone's pronouns and she got upset and I haven't heard from her since. That's on her, not me.

I'm sorry you feel like you can't be yourself, but maybe there's a way to be yourself while educating yourself more

I am an ally to all races, LGBTQ+, and religions but I believe that everyone is entitled to their own opinions! Prejudice is always going to happen no matter what in EVERYONE regardless of their background, and it is only fair that everyone has their own opinions. You don’t have to like a certain group of people to respect them, nor do you have to stand by their beliefs or opinions.

As long as you’re respectful to everyone on the outside, it’s natural to have specific opinions and negative views on specific groups and everybody should be able to respect that as long as it’s not harmful🙏 ✨