Ladies, Don't Let Anybody Stop You from Being Your Best Version💖
Heyaaaaaaa You Beautiful & Confident Women of All Times!
Introducing myself, I am Resilience! 🤗 I have been a woman myself and this "International Women's Day", I find the perfect opportunity to support you in leveraging your inner power leading to becoming the best version of yourself!
So, my lovely ladies, what I am gonna state here can be quite discomforting and unrealistic to you!
I guess it's been for most of us because of the upbringing and social mindset we are brought up in!
But I tell you, perceptions and patterns developed over a long time period are always uncomfortable! Only those who have the courage to be who they are meant to be, take up the tougher, unpredictable and "practically impossible" pathway!
So, the choice is always yours!
Do you wish to settle or compromise for the less or do you keep your standards high enough and automatically get them respected by the rightest people in your life!
I would ask you some questions! You don't need to answer them here but ask yourself internally and be honest to your authentic self!
How many times have you blamed yourself or felt guilty for disappointing others by disagreeing with them?
How many times have you over-explained yourself to people to seek validation?
How many times have you not spoken up and stood for yourself when your heart was actually shouting for it?
How many times have you said yes when actually your body was crying to say no?
How many times have you heard in life, be the good girl?
How many times have you felt being unheard, taken for granted and running behind people to seek assurance?
How many times have you waited for the perfect moment to speak up for yourself?
How many times have you stopped yourself from asserting just because you felt you were unprepared?
How many times have you felt that standing up for yourself makes you arrogant or selfish?
Ladies, I can write a series of questions like these!
Now, this post is not for those who have adapted themselves to live life this way and silenced their inner potential that will remain unlocked!
But for those who have made the very powerful choice to change themselves and unlock their latent power that can disrupt the status quo!
This day is a celebration of all the women who are bold, confident, assertive and secure!
This day is a celebration of all the women who know that they are enough, and they have always been enough!
This day is a celebration of all the women who exercise their freedom to choose, to make decisions for their life and who know that they are allowed to be themselves, to take space when needed!
This day is a celebration of all the women who respect and love themselves first radiating the same to the world out there!
This day is a celebration of all the women who are clear and don't betray their truest selves for external assurance!
This day is a celebration of all the women who believe that they are magnets for the right people, people who consider them equals, respect them not for being a pleaser but for being who they are authentically!
This day is a celebration of all the women who make people realize that their existence is a privilege, and their availability comes at a cost, the cost of respect!
This day is a celebration of all the women who know what they deserve is nothing less than their standards!
This day is a celebration of all the women who support and inspire rather than hide and escape!
Don't let your inner power die calling out for a change that just requires a bit of courage!
Ladies, if you don't stand up for yourself, nobody will do it for you!
So, fly high with your dreams and let your confidence radiate out to the world not as an outcome of superficiality but deep internal transformation!
Let your walk into the room be full of true humble yet brave boldness!
Don't let your soul dwell on frustration and being stuck for not doing what you should have done!
So, when you realize this, start now!
Don't overthink, don't wait for the right moment, just do it now!
Take one step ahead and be the woman who leaves a legacy behind to be cherished for generations to come!
Be the woman you look up to!
Why wait for others when you have it all in you?💓
Regards,
Resilience! 💞💞
@resilience2025 I really appreciate that your message comes from a place of encouragement and empowerment, and I can see that you want to uplift women. However, I want to point out that Women’s Rights Day is not about personal confidence or individual empowerment, it’s about fighting for the rights of all women, especially those who don’t have the privilege to simply "choose" to be bold or assertive.
Framing it as a matter of individual choice overlooks the systemic barriers that women face, oppression, violence, discrimination, and economic dependence. Women can't just "decide" to stand up for themselves when their circumstances make it dangerous or impossible.
Feminism is not about telling women to be stronger as individuals, it’s about changing the structures that hold women back.
I know your message was written with good intentions, and I truly appreciate the desire to support women. I just wanted to share this perspective 💛
@Mya000
Thank youuuu Ma'am for sharing your perspective 💕 it was an eye opener for me as well!
I truly appreciate your perspective and I understand what you say completely! Thank you for coming forward and stating yourself! I will surely incorporate this understanding in my life as well! Acknowledging that I am growing myself 💓 with true support from leading hearts like you 💕