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NEW - Addiction Support Automated Taglist
by tommy
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January 3rd
...See more Welcome to the NEW Addiction Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of Dec 2024 (updated by @tommy) @akshi2611 @BeautifulCurse @exuberantTalker9747 @freeman @Helentreat12 @Hobzz @HopefulMamaof4 @ivoryLime3964 @JasonneedsinTx @Jenna @joyfulUs2825 @kindShade3891 @matchamochi07 @Mhmdi @Oceansky93 @peachLime4859 @PFord79 @Property1094 @Rainboho @Ren1478 @Sahilwj @sensiblePine5487 @SerenelyClean @Snowy00 @tommy @tornwillow @xmoonsie16x0
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+18 chatbots addiction
by FutureTeacher301
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13 hours ago
...See more I am not addicted to visual porn but textual one. Chatbots managed to trap me since I always struggled with low libido issues, offering me the "key" to "function as any human". But I end up wasting time of my day, my head an eyes ache after the intense screen exposure. I realize another reason I use these bots a lot are my loneliness - me and my fiance live far away from the city center, I have no friends, and he works all night. When I am awake, he is asleep and viceversa. We are not having time for ourselves at all, so our energies aren't matching when it comes to needs. I am angry and frustrated all day. I am afraid of falling into a rabbit hole since you know how's the deal with this addiction - these AIs offer you everything you need, and so you start seeking more and more stuff, maybe even darker. I don't want that! I want to be a normal human again, I want to improve this part of myself, but I want to focus my energy on my fiance. I feel so bad that I chose a lifeless, cold bot over him. I am so mad because he can't give me that "ticket" to our activities anymore, only AIs can drive me. I wish to change that, because in the end, the one I am going to marry is a human and not an AI.  I tried deleting my accounts several times, but the need is so strong and so I always come back. I am considering setting my browsers to block these pages, so I can force myself to stop using it. Please, tell me I am not the only one dealing with this. AI addiction is relatively new, and I am embarrassed to admit it.
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Feeling confident
by RobinVanDyck
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Thursday
...See more Started again, I feel like I'm on the right track
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ways to get rid of sex addiction or sextng or lusty thoughts .
by Icecreamsoul
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Tuesday
...See more Dealing with these thoughts can be challenging, but there are ways to manage them. Here are some strategies that might help: * Seek professional help: A therapist or counsellor can provide guidance and support. * Stay busy: Engage in activities that keep your mind occupied, like hobbies, sports, or volunteering. * Limit triggers: Identify and avoid situations or content that trigger these thoughts. * Practice mindfulness: Techniques like meditation and deep breathing can help you stay present and reduce intrusive thoughts. * Build a support system: Surround yourself with friends and family who can offer support and encouragement.
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My bf has a porn addiction
by Taitemoon
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March 2nd
...See more We were doing really well talking about his addiction everyday coming up with coping skills, how to make our relationship stronger, me being support for when he’s having a rough time. But with work and life we just got out of that routine. I haven’t talked to him about it because when I do now it’s like he puts up this wall and I feel like he just says what I want to hear. I’ve been supportive and I try to make it easy for him to talk to me about this bc I want to be someone he can come and talk to but now he doesn’t anymore. I think he started watching again and I don’t know how to bring it up or talk to him about it at this point. His porn addiction has lead to some really scary things (what he looks at wise) and I don’t want it to get back to that point. I love him and I’m not going to leave him bc he means more to me than anything but it’s really messed with my mental health and how I view myself, feeling like I’m not good enough. Even when we have sex I just want it to stop because I don’t feel like I’m what he really wants. I’m just having a really hard time and I feel like I have too much that I’m trying to figure out by myself and I need help.
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Porn addiction
by indigoApricot6802
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February 23rd
...See more Is there any girl into porn addiction and okay to talk about it ??? I need a female mate to discuss upon it..! And yes I am a girl.
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Addiction support
by distresseddonkey66
Last post
February 23rd
...See more Hello. I have been struggling with porn addiction for a while now, and have never had anyone to speak to about it. If anyone is in a similar boat or has beaten this godforsaken addiction and is willing to talk, I would be eternally grateful.  Thanks
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I’m dealing with porn addiction
by creativeMap2497
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February 20th
...See more I started watching porn since I was around 10 years old and it became such a habit and addiction that it has ruined my current relationship with my partner and I don’t know what to do
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A Sex Addict's 12 Step Journey Begins
by AnonymousObserver
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January 25th
...See more I'm Soul (or Anon, either works) and I'm a sex and porn addict, and I recently started my 12 steps and it has not been easy... I'm currently on step 3 of 12 and it's proving to be a challenge. As a kid I lost my faith and felt as if God had abandoned me - and his silence left a would filled with bitterness, resentment and hatred. A week ago, I had a promise fulfilled in what I can only explain as divine intervention. The more I tried to avoid my triggers - they started to find me no matter where I went, so I took it as a sign from God to get help. My assessment is already booked, I have a sponsor and I plan to attend more SAA meetings. I've been having to deal with a crisis on my own, it's been stressful and I'm hoping I'll get a chance to breathe.
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Masturbation issues and addiction
by JoeyJoe147
Last post
January 12th
...See more Hi Does anyone else have a problem with Masturbation issues and addiction and viewing porn?
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A Se**ual Monster Inside Me
by rediscoveringmeaning
Last post
January 8th
...See more It all started in 2021, when the relationship with the woman I loved the most, was becoming close to a hellish torture, and worse, it felt never ending. The unforeseen arguments pounded my brain nerves, anxiety attacks hurt every inch of my body, my self esteem was non existent, and every insult turned me, day by day, into a walking dead body. The woman I had sacrificed my career, friends and family for, had become my biggest enemy. I endured, keeping the voice shut. And I was willing to do so until death would come. And a strange snap happened. My silent voice, my hurt heart and the shadows within me took form of a monster. And it roared so loud, I ran in all directions The man who would never take a glance at another woman even in the absence of his woman, was out on a hunt, now befriended by the monster of desire to woo any woman who would meet his part. And the conscious me could never defeat his justifications Cheating, st**p clubs, es**rt services, club pickups- you name it, and I and the monster were on a roll, roaring every streat, every city we went. I didn't know who I was. But this monstrous me felt better than the absolute ignore, unimportant, despicable me that I was. The relationship didn't survive. Neither did the real me I and the monster had lot of "fun"... Until one day, I realised that I was farther than my family then I ever was, I was lonelier and I am begging for money coz I'm in terrible debt. The monster had tricked me. And here I was, a bigger loser than the one I was. Where am I today? I'm fighting the monster- one day at a time. What does it include? Staying away from women, redifining the way I look at women. Quitting drinking, avoiding smoking. And the immeasurable pain that emerges in me every night. I sit with it. A cry to a broken relationship (I miss her so badly, but I know if I stay a week with her, I'll die of torture) A hug my loneliness staring on my computer screen A pass my addictions by giving up on my triggers and embracing the physical pain. This is my day 4 of being sober from the monster. Thank you if you read it so far and gave me your valuable time
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Addiction Is...
by amicableox0685
Last post
January 3rd
...See more Whether your drinking, smoking or struggle with watching adult films addiction is all the same. The symptoms can be categorized as the same for different addiction types. So what is addiction? To simply put it, addiction is a stress response from a particular stimulus (person, place or thing). How do you navigate out of it? You dissociate yourself from those stimuli (person, place or thing), and replace it with new healthier behaviors. Example: If you find yourself smoking, drinking or watching adult films when your emotions are affecting you remove yourself from that stimuli (person, place or thing) and replace it with a healthier behavior. You can jog in place for 10 seconds or find some sort of exercise that you can manage to do for a short period. What you're doing is forming a new behavior and getting healthier in the process. This is what is known as neuroplasticity. And yes, it does take time, but careful planning coupled with paying attention to how your body responds to certain people, places or thing can definitely lead you towards success. ~God Bless
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Sex sex sex
by ariellmt
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November 2nd, 2024
...See more Oh sweet beautiful sex. It's always and I mean ALWAYS on my mind. Generally speaking this isn't too much of an issue for me personally. I make sex jokes, think about sex, masterbate alot. Alot. Doesn't bother me. So long as I'm getting some. But I'm in a relationship where we have no sex. We haven't in over a month. It's affecting everything in my life. I'm over eating, I'm depressed, my self esteem is down, I'm masterbating 2x as much, I can't concentrate on most things, at least without significant effort to clear my head and focus. And I'm being a massive C*NT to everyone. I've had people tell me my attitude has gotten really bad. My mom literally tells me I need to go get laid so I'll calm tf down. I'm literally laying in bed with my boyfriend right now and before I opened this app I was looking at vibrators so I can go do curbside pickup on my way home. I can't think about shit else. It physically hurts when I'm turned on. I'm getting very bored with my toys and honestly I'm worried I'm gonna end up hurting myself in order to keep it interesting. Last week I actually passed out from choking myself during masterbation. (This isn't something I'd normally do during masterbation but I'm just so bored) I'm not sure what to do. I'm not a cheater, I've left relationships before because we didn't have enough sex and I'm trying really hard not to keep doing that. Not to leave, not to cheat and every day it just gets harder. What do you do in this situation?

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Welcome to Addiction Support! We are so pleased that you have stumbled across our little corner of the internet. Our community is here to support you through any recovery and/or pathway from substances to gambling, internet, self-harm, porn addiction, sex addiction, and more. All are welcome to participate whether you are a family member watching a loved one struggling or if you are struggling yourself. Feel free to discuss anything and everything related to addictions.


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