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I am taking new members. You can feel free to ping me when my bubble is green. I also accept listening mentees. Feel free to reach out if you think I would be a helpful mentor for you. I don't claim to be an expert, but I appreciate when people listen respectfully and attentively to me. I hope to provide the same for you.

Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 On a self-care break. Response time may be slow. Thanks for your patience💙 (Currently not accepting new member chats❤️ Warm welcomes to you wonderful human, reaching my cozy corner.⛺️ Let's have a cup of tea and talk it out.🍵 Remember that you're not alone, and we will get through this together. I hope you all get the help you truly deserve, stay awesome.💚) I try to keep it respectful at all times, and I expect you to do the same, so we can create a really awesome place for you to share and feel safe. Everyone has their own unique story, and I'm honored to listen to yours.😊) ~It is in our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light. 🌠 ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been?😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow.  I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕 My amazing twin listener: Ultraterrestrial ♡ My awesome twin member: CloudCola ♡

Hi I'm Dandan and I'm a listener here on cups 😊 😊  Chat Overview: My chats include a 30-45 minute chats. I don't take inappropriate chats and/or depression chats. I say ok as acknowledge what is being said and process it. This is no sarcastic ok remark by any means. 

Reaching out is a great thing, a strong thing. Sometimes just talking helps. Listeners are eager to acknowledge what's said without judgment; to empathize; to encourage self-reflection, honesty, and mindfulness. There are always choices, no matter how small or undesirable, and those choices can be explored safely. Ongoing List of Healthy Distractions (& Self-Love) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] or follow along this custom growth path: Melon's Self-Care Stepping Stones Path [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] Grounding techniques, self-care, healthy distractions Need a Listener or Peer Support when Melon isn't here? Connect to a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?verifiedlistener=on] Listeners: Connect to Peer Support [https://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=98] Keep seeking the support you deserve. "Rivers know this: There is no hurry." - A. A. Milne, "Winnie the Pooh"

Academy Ambassador at the Quality Listening Program [https://www.7cups.com/academy/] Community Mentor Leader at the QLP Community [https://www.7cups.com/home/qlp/] ATL - Adult-Teen Listener ATL Outreach Agent Chat Supporter This hero will save you! => click here [https://youtu.be/0IA3ZvCkRkQ&start=15]   Unfortunately, I can't take more personal requests. Members I already know are welcome. Time in my country right now: click here [https://time.is/Argentina] 

Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!

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🌊🌊Inactive..friends can still message🌊🌊 pfp by @Aurewolf BROWSE LISTENER [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] CARE TEAM REQUEST [http://bit.ly/7cupsCTReferralForm] 🌷Dear Members🌷  💙I will listen to you without judging and i won't force you to do anything (it's not necessary to answer things you are uncomfortable with) 💙I will be your private and safe space where you can vent out your problems , anger, sadness and happiness on me :) ------------------------- 🌷Important note🌷  💙triggered by words like 'warning, hate'💙  💙also i don't take chats based on sexual topics💙  💙triggered with caps💙  💙triggered by calling me dear , sweetie, honey if I don't know you well💙  💙I don't tolerate pranks also even if it's friendly💙 💙I don't provide chat support on relationships, violence (any kind) and sexual topic💙 (new) ------------------------- 🌷Some general navigation if you are new to 7cups🌷 https://www.7cups.com [https://www.7cups.com/113046774] 💙 If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]check them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544] 💙 💙link to all chatrooms active Chatrooms [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]💙 💙feel free to pm me or all active users with a Safety Patrol badge [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=405]  (for inappropriate bios, names and pfp only )💙  💙Care request form to nominate listeners : form [http://bit.ly/7cupsCTReferralForm]💙 💙had a hard chat fellow listener? feel free to fill a peer support form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczCTVNWvFp9e9EwyYNT5oTcoBdfRxROzPvcXhHk0cXLvwyQw/viewform]💙 💙If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/view] 💙  💙or request for a chat support using this emergency form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2yFIiL6az6UEOc5LNqOOERpM7D0g8F49x0qjbIq7QwhJOBQ/viewform]💙  💙comprehensive slide deck on all leadership roles [https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/10oh0pBR1rt9C6tMAhRvjF1TfgAEHbyDQyimizN4hdfU/edit?usp=drive_link]💙  💙Are you a member? You can nominate a listener for the tulip badge here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationGratitude_1159/ProjectTulip_224864/1/].💙 ------------------------- My roles ✷ verified Adult-teen listener (ATL) ✷ Chatroom mentor (listener mod) ✷ Chat Support (if you need help with ongoing chats for adults and teens) ✷ Doorkeeper ✷ GSP Graduate with Honours ✷ LCT Project Agent (can reach out to me if interested to become a Listener coach) ✷ Community Mentor (Music & Dance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/music/]) click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/music/CommunitySpace_2579/HelpWantedMusicDancesubcommunity_315718/] if you are interested in joining the M&D Team ------------------------- 🌷People🌷   💕 twinning with amazing @aticuest , @confidentRabbit7311, @SilverSeastar and @Alexia000 💕 💜@cristlecares🌻📸 my charming Chatroom Mentor twin💜 💚@AuRewolf [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3427622] my appreciating twin💚 🧡@Suryansh my Smart twin🧡 💙@melodyoftheocean🌊 my cups sibling💙 ♥︎@Jenna my left-handed pal♥︎ ❤️miss you @fallenangel19😸 , i know you are here with me forever❤️ 💙 some other people close to my (appreciation link included) 💙 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] @kindnessmater2020 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2892233] @Starlasky [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2924260] @artsysoul22 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2932261] @lueurspace [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2937203] @hopezzy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2942797]  @lavender 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[https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @brahmm [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215]  @FighterArpi [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931091] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]@ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]Estrellitaa [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]  @Sparklingseashells [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2990114] @Sunisshiningandsoareyou 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[https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3194076] @fristo [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3192533] @waterfallnature [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3196952] @fromthelandofhope [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3204546] @Jasmineishereforu [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3206611] @thoughtfulblossom [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3219770] @GentleEmperor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3219424] @tabbycat97 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3230845] @shinequeen001 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3216528] @amiablebunny4016 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3214346] @Aurewolf [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3237343] @richuyulin [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3209341] @EvelyneRose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3240541] @erica [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3246588] @hopedreamlove [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3256764] @sirenofserenity [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitud/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3254881] @beck [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3280606]  @yourcaringconfidant [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3324003]  @stargirltina [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3351751] @AnnaSilverberg [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3363364] @Jenna [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3366819] @Suryansh [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3390478] @KateDoskocilova [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3418939]  ( still need to finish) just an amazing link [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3198413] my self care interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AddictionSupport_131/PreventingandOvercoming7cupsAddiction_2339/ATalkOnSelfCareWithBlueRiver5968_277783/]  living with leaders interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/SittingonthebankofCaringBlueRiver_297783/] some of the shoutouts i got which melted my heart :p @Pluviophile1802 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/CommunityAdministrationCultureandGuidelines_141/ListenerShoutOutsAppreciatefellowlisteners_227537/?post=3283951] @serenePineapple7180 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/CommunityAdministrationCultureandGuidelines_141/ListenerShoutOutsAppreciatefellowlisteners_227537/?post=3200971]

💕Retired, Married, & Loving It 💕  🚨 IMPORTANT 🚨  ♥️Until further notice♥️ 💚NO LONGER taking NEW or LIVE CHATS 💚 ✅Housekeeping Rules ✅Must Completely Read  My Bio Before Chatting with Me  You can leave me messages in between chats and I will check back with you.  All conversations are held in strictest confidence!    ⭐️ ⭐️Listener for members 35+ Preferred⭐️⭐️ 💕💕💕Accepting Long Term Members 💕💕💕 I reserve the right to NOT listen to RUDE or DISREPECTING members. I am just a volunteer verified listener. I may refer you to other listeners depending on TOPIC or AGE.  “Do not lose hope, please believe that there are a thousand beautiful things waiting for you. Sunshine comes to all who feel rain”  If you found our chat to be supportive and helpful, please leave a review! Thank you in advance! Please don’t reach out if you’re wanting an inappropriate chat!   💕There's no need to be perfect to inspire others. Let others get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections. 💕 ☕️☕️☕️☕️Love this analogy!☕️☕️☕️☕️ You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, causing you to spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee? ""Because someone bumped into me!!!" Nope. You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea. Whatever is inside the cup will spill out. So...when life shakes you (and it WILL), whatever is inside you will come out. The big question is "'What's in MY cup?" When life gets tough, what spills over? Joy, appreciation, love, acceptance? Hostility, anger, judgement, harsh words and exhaustion? Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it. Especially right now, it's so important to make sure we fill our cups with the good stuff - forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation; and kindness and love for others. 7Cups For the Searching Soul FREE Kindle https://www.amazon.com/7-Cups-Searching-Soul-7Cups-ebook/dp/B01BFWMCXY [https://www.amazon.com/7-Cups-Searching-Soul-7Cups-ebook/dp/B01BFWMCXY] ⁉️TAROT One Question One Card ⁉️ 🎆Informs a Question & Shows Another Perspective Through Your Eyes 👀 Only --My Status Information!-- Red: I am NOT likely online, so shoot me a message!  Orange: I am definitely online, and am answering PMs! Green: I am taking chats and doing support sessions! Members, feel free to send me a message for support, and listeners, feel free to contact me as well! Immediate responses. This is not a comprehensive list but some community sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 [tel:18002738255] Crisis Text Line [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in] (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 International Association for Suicide Prevention  [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  UK  Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123  Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 [tel:080020068204141] or text 0778620209697 [tel:0778620209697] Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] Love & Light ꧁.Cheri ꧂     

Personal request - i dont take  LGBTQ issues .I chat for a maximum of 60 minutes at a time to make sure my focus is solely on you .  Please be aware I will not offer you any advice on your situation or tell you what you should do. Instead I will listen to you with understanding and support you to open up about how you are feeling in a safe and supportive environment. Pls dont substitute this with therapy or counselling

Middle-aged, but still young at heart. I've navigated my own journey of healing and self-discovery. I find comfort in nature, music, books, movies, art, and the kindness of warm-hearted people. A parent of two, actively working and volunteering. I'm passionate about psychology, personal growth, and envisioning a brighter future world.