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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].  Here are some resources in case you need them -  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]  Join us in various group discussions. check the community calendar for the schedule and details.  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-  Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. We all are here with you to listen to and support you.  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!

Many people have difficulty giving and receiving love because of hurt and fear. Often, we do not see an attitude or belief as the source of discomfort in our life instead blame other people. We need love, satisfaction, wealth, mental sanity, a decent job, sane coworkers, and most of all happiness but the list is endless. We all have been through trouble. That's why we all are here. You're stronger than you think. Hold on to it. I'll be here to talk If you feel any trouble. Be strong let time do his job. Myself Jay I'll be a friend of yours in trouble. Just like Coldplay songs ;)

I CURRENTLY DO NOT TAKE CHATS AT THIS TIME. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL & AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE" [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]   (My Pm's are always open if you have a question or are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~  Hi and welcome to 7cups! I’m PoliteOcean~ (But, You can call me "OCEAN")~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, & also Licensed in the Healthcare Field.  I’m also a Fitness Instructor with a passion for Dance & ZUMBA Fitness. I am here to listen, support and not judge. I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal experiences so perhaps I can help. If I'm away, please leave me a message. ⭐️LISTENING STRENGTHS⭐️ *Family Stress *Healthy Living  *Parenting ⭐️CURRENTLY ACTIVE ROLES⭐️ * COMMUNITY MENTOR LEADER * HEALTHY LIVING TEAM LEADER & SUPPORT ROOM MENTOR *ADULT CHATROOM MENTOR & CHAT SUPPORT  *FORUM MENTOR  *Group Moderator *Discussion Trainer *Verified Listening Team  *Door Keeper ⭐️👯‍♂️ MY LISTENING TWINS 👯‍♂️ ⭐️ @HopieRemi @Vivelespatates  @MusicalMagic (R.I.P.) 🙏🏼 

Hello, I’m Era!  I'M NO LONGER ACTIVE AS A LISTENER.  ───✱*.｡:｡✱*.:｡✧*.｡✰*.:｡✧*.｡:｡*.｡✱ ─── I’m the Mentor Leader of the Teen Community. I oversee the teen community alongside Obs [https://www.7cups.com/@ASilentObserver].  My main responsibilities include strengthening teen community in all areas (group support, forums, listener rooms, etc.), addressing concerns and safety in the teen community, and building more structure, transparency, and communication in the teen community. You can reach out to me if you have questions/clarifications to ask, experiences you would like to share, suggestions/feedback about teen community or just want to poke my PMs for a pizza! ───✱*.｡:｡✱*.:｡✧*.｡✰*.:｡✧*.｡:｡*.｡✱ ─── Other Current Involvements: ➤ Mentor roles: Teen & Adult Chatroom Mentor | Teen Transitioning Mentor ➤ General roles: 7Cups Intern Grad with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DisabilitiesSupportCommunity_47/LearningDisabilities_262/WhatareLearningDisabilities_85828/] ​| Adult-Teen Listener  ➤ Supporter roles: Listener Room Supporter | Peer Supporter | Chat Support​​ ➤ Group Support roles:  Doorkeeper | Global Group Mod ➤ Community Projects/Teams: Safety Patrol team member ➤ Buddy System: Peer Support Buddy  ───✱*.｡:｡✱*.:｡✧*.｡✰*.:｡✧*.｡:｡*.｡✱ ─── ------------------------- I’m a fast-learner and an explorer so before my almost 2-year break, I tried out so many teams and roles and got involved in different areas of the community. Here are my previous roles! ➤ Mentor Leader roles: Group support Mentor Leader (Teens) ​| Internship Mentor Leader ➤ Mentor roles: Global Forum Mentor | Forum Mentor for Listener Learning & Journey [http://7cups.com/home/listenerjourney] ​| Support Team Mentor  ➤ General roles: Forum Supporter for 7Cups Internship [http://7cups.com/home/interns] ​| Project Agent for Social Soldiers Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/SocialMediaSoldiers_1619/] ➤ Community Projects/Teams: Forum Flag Team member ​| Listener Verifiers Team member ​| Translation Team member ​| Welcoming Team member ​| Q&A Approval Team member ​| Sponsor/Sponsee Program ➤ Group Support Teams: Events Team ​| Compassion Corner ​Team ​| Depression Support Team ​| Healthy Living Team | Positivity Team (Motivation & Self-Help Team)​ | Support+ Team ➤ Buddy system: Mentor buddy ​| Group mod buddy ​| Intern buddy ───✱*.｡:｡✱*.:｡✧*.｡✰*.:｡✧*.｡:｡*.｡✱ ─── CLICK ME FOR A SURPRISE! [http://mwkworks.com/desiderata.html]

To Members:  I am an experienced listener who has been doing this since June 2016. If you request a chat with me, the space is going to be yours to share with me without any fear of judgement. Boundaries are essential to me offering you support, and I will let you know how much time we have to chat in the beginning of the chat. I also personally do not share too much about myself in our chats because I want the focus to be on supporting you. In your chat, I will provide you with emotional support and while we can brainstorm suggestions, I cannot give you advice.  The topics I have listed are the ones I support the best however I am open to supporting you on any topic outside of sext, active/passive suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  Sometimes you may see me in the member rooms as a moderator. Sometimes you might even see me posting in the forums. If I am online, I am actively ready to chat but you can message me under any status and I will reply when I am available. I also provide the option of texting back and forth in an offline approach. When messaging me for the first time, please tell me what you want to talk about in order to get a faster response. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours? To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. My Listener Twin -> Fenrisulf Vivelespatates

🌸 [ I'm on a self-care break. My responses might be delayed. ] < Sorry, I can not take 1-1 chats for the moment. Feel free to message me but I do not promise to answer to chat requests. > You've got a heart as loud as lions So why let your voice be tamed? Maybe we're a little different There's no need to be ashamed There's no need to be afraid I will sing with you Hello! I'm glad you found me. I'm a trained active listener and a peer supporter. I'm happy to listen and help people who want me to. Feel free to contact me. == Listener / member created Accolades == [ high kick badge ] : created by SparkyGizmo. High five!

Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php  if you need to edit or cancel an event already published, or any other need (repeats, pictures, titles or descriptions, etc) related to community calendar, send me a message. I answer within 24-48 hours. ------------------------- English will follow, please read the profile before to send a message! (I normally take only French Chats) ------------------------- FRANCAIS  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute et support dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique (expérience personnelle) - Autisme et TSA  (expérience professionnelle) - Automutilation (expérience personnelle, j'ai complètement arrêté il y a plusieurs années) - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique (expérience personnelle) - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives (expérience personnelle) - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) - Diversité culturelle (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) - LGBTQA+ (expérience personnelle) - Gestion des émotions (expérience personnelle) - Parentalité (expérience professionnelle) - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes) (expérience personnelle) - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes (expérience personnelle) - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise (expérience personnelle) - Troubles du comportement alimentaire (expérience personnelle, je me suis rétablie) - Stress financier (expérience personnelle) - Vie étudiante (expérience personnelle, je suis étudiante) - Ados vivant en familles d'acceuil/foyer de groupe/centre jeunesse, ou adultes qui y ont vécu enfant (expérience personnelle et professionnelle) Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations  - Ruptures amoureuses et divorce - Santé sexuelle et tout ce qui touche la sexualité (excepté les victimes d'abus sexuels qui sont les bienvenues) - Rencontres (dating) - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes, tant pour du court terme, long terme et check-ins. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne ou sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. Merci de précisé votre besoin et sujet dans votre premier message. ------------------------- English My English is limited to an intermediate level so I usually don't take adult chats in English. If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;)  Otherwise, I accept teens for English chats on the following topics only:  - Anxiety, stress (personal experience) - panic attacks (personal experience, recovered) - Autism and ASD (working experience) - Self-harm (personal experience, fully recovered for years) - Living with a physical disability - physical health problems  (personal experience) - chronic and/or degenerative diseases (personal experience) - Bullying, taxing, discrimination (personal experience) - Cultural diversity (personal experience + professional experience) - LGBTQA+ (personal experience) - Emotional management (personal experience) - Weight management, adopting a healthy lifestyle. (I advocate intuitive eating, not diets) (personal experience) - Abuse victims, Crime victims (personal experience) - Traumatic experiences, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) (personal experience, recovered) - Self-employment, starting a business (personal experience) - Eating disorders (personal experience, fully recovered) - Financial stress (personal experience) - Student life (personal experience, I'm still a student) - Parenting and familial (professional experience) - Foster care (personal experience and professional experience) If you have been referred to me by an other listener with my permission for a different topic, or crossed me from forums or chatrooms, feel free to message and specify! ;)  I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics: - Relationships (including boy/girl friend) - except parent-child or school which are welcome  - Breakups and divorces - Sexual health and any other sexual issue (except victims of crime) - "Boy/man or girl/woman" issues I accept new members, teens and adults for both short term and long term. Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests without a specified topic will not be answered. ------------------------- Mentorat J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés.  Projets spécifiques pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement, tant aux membres qu'aux écoutants:  * Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living)   * Support Room Mentor (in charge of Tockify)  Ça signifie que je peux vous aider à planifier, organiser et animer des discussions de groupe dans les canaux, joindre une équipe qui anime régulièrement des discussions, ou mettre à jour vos évènements sur notre calendrier communautaire. (Pour le mentorat réservé aux écoutants, visitez mon profil de mentor) ------------------------- Healthy Living Team Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!   The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead!  If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/]!  ------------------------- Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3 ------------------------- Group Support Mentor in charge of Tockify Calendar.  If you notice any issue in Tockify Calendar, including using it, creating, editing, canceling or deleting a session or repeated weekly event; or want to inform about events not taking place as planned, you are welcome to message me and I will reply within 24 to 48 hours. Upcoming sessions https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php  Help with planning, preparing or discussions. No matter if you are a member or listener, I can help you with that! :)  For mentoring specific to listeners, visit my mentor bio.

Update: I am not taking live chat requests at the moment but I'd be more than happy to talk to you. Please drop a text telling me what you're going through or what would you like to talk about and I'll get back to you within 24 hours. Thanks. Hello! :) I am here to help out anyone that I can because I know what bad days feel like. I have been through some tough times myself. I'll be understanding and supportive. I won't judge and I'll be your friend. I love listening to music, colouring, photography, meditation, writing. I wouldn't use the word 'and' while telling you about the things I love because it would suggest an end to the list. If I am online, feel free to contact me. If I am not available at the moment, leave me a message and I'll get back to you ASAP. Follow me for inspirational images and quotes. Remember to keep your head high and don't ever give up. Keep believing because tomorrow will be a better day. :)

Proud triplet of the terrific trio @InternalAcceptance and @Chassymom    Former leader of the addiction support team and have since passed the torch on to @InternalAcceptance. So proud of my amazing tripply <3 Hi there, I'm AJ but you can call me vinyl, viny or fly. Welcome to my listener profile. Glad you're here with us on 7 cups.    I'm a verified active listener. I'm happy to support you on your journey and help you navigate the bumps in the road you may come across. I've driven over many myself and have acquired much wisdom and compassion along the way. Message me if you're looking for a caring, wise and open-minded set of ears. I'm passionate about helping people in need and am currently pursuing a Bachelor's degree with a major in Psychology and minor in Sociology. I've spent most of my career working with youth with special needs and have recently been spending much of my time volunteering with a local peer-based harm reduction group. I'm happy to chat about whatever's on your mind but I have the most knowledge in the areas of anxiety and panic attacks, drug/alcohol use and harm reduction, autism, ADHD, chronic illnesses and disabilities, coping with strong emotions, sexual orientation and gender identity, and post-traumatic stress.   Please note that I take 1-1 chats in 1 hour time blocks. I do this to make sure that everyone has a chance to be listened to. I'll let you know when there are 10 minutes remaining in your chat so it's easier to start wrapping things up. Looking forward to hearing from all you lovely people. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help when you need it. Through our struggles, we can learn how to harness our strengths         

On break, currently not involved in any community roles.