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by tommy
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 November 15th, 2024
...See more Welcome to the 20+ Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 29th July (updated by @tommy) @azuladragon34 @Dawnie0203 @forcefulThinker186 @HarmonyBlossom @Racey08 @Rainer111 @TannDee @tommy
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Let's discuss issues
by pandanfe
Last post
 October 28th, 2024
...See more What are the adult issues that you would like to discuss? 
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Anyone going through a breakup?
by Ghosthost25
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Hey there :) My partner broke up with me two weeks ago and I'm currently trying to come to terms with it. Is anyone else going through a breakup at the moment?
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Mess
by sociableThinker89
Last post
 11 hours ago
...See more Guys I want a friend who could talk with me. 
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Sex addict
by brightScarf3861
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more I am a sex addict and finding a way to cool my thoughts by having a casual talk and anyone with same problems or anyone who can support me are welcome
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TW- Abusive relationship
by raspberryBranch1257
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hey, so I just got out of a 9 month old relationship which was toxic and abusive, I was kinda hoping to talk to some woman who had similar experiences like mine, I’m a 21 year old girl, and it has been really hard, I’m kinda also ashamed of myself for still feeling love that person, and that the same time hate him, i understand going back isn’t the option at all and at the same time i miss him a lot and the good memories flood in and I miss the familiarity, it’s been confusing, it’s been a month since we broke up and he’s asking me back as well🧿
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Why are moms obsessed with our rooms being cleaned?
by GummyPop
Last post
 Friday
...See more I'm Hina 31, I have AuDHD that comes with severe PDA. Nymom constantly orders me to clean up everything but I cannot get her to understand how PDA works and it always turns into an argument and her constantly getting on my nerves due to her *** poor listening skills.
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In your 20s
by BennyTenny
Last post
 Thursday
...See more Why do you get judged for not being in a relationship if you are a man but praised if you a strong independent woman? Does anyone think this is true or am I crazy? I'm not trying to take a stance or say anything bad. It's just something I realized at least where I'm from.
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Complex ptsd
by Dahliabean
Last post
 Thursday
...See more Any one else struggling with intense nightmares of real events from your past? For me it was surviving domestic v and abuse. When I wake up I spend my entire day having jarring flash backs. It's making me distant/cold towards my supportive and kind partner. But in some of these dreams he takes the place of my abusive ex. It's making me feel insane.
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I need help - a bit desperate vent and a quest for a brighter day.
by energeticWest1129
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more Hello, I'm an old member of the group but I'm not regularly active.  I just turned 30 recently, and It's hitting hard. I feel mentally crippled a lot of the time lately. I used to be the driver of my life but now I don't feel like I'm in control at all. I have been financially on my parents over the past 9 months, which sucks so bad. I feel ashamed about myself. And I've been picking up smoking habits over the past few months. I've gained 33 pounds over the past few years since covid and it sucks. Today I'm trying to quit smoking and it's feeling miserable, I feel like a zombie in a stupid body. But enough negativity. At least i've tried to go for a long walk and resisting the temptation as much as I can. I'm trying to process the next steps of my life, i went through this kinda depressive cycle before and I found the light at the end of the tunnel, maybe right now is just another tunnel.  I need to work around my chemical balance in the brain during nicotine quitting. it feels horrible. an AI generated photo with my prompt "dopamine hits" - i hope to have a pet but taking care of them could be a pain...
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I want to go home.
by resourcefulPlane4327
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more That's it. I just want to go home. I don't have much else to say about it. I want to feel safe and secure and just not worry about anything. Even just for a day or two. Just me. In solitude.
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Stress, stress and more stress.
by CallumKing2000
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more Hello my name is callum. I am 23 years of age (will be 24 this year) anyway I chose to join this thread community and share a little bit about myself and a bit of my life I had to learn at a teenager and hadn't really had that chance to live as they say when your young. Anyway when I was around 16 I chose I wanted to leave home and move out this was around early 2017 just as I was leaving school. I wanted my own company and wanted to see what it was like. I was scared and frightened like anyone would be at such a young age to make such big decisions like that. That wish came true a year and a 3 months later (September 2018) I moved out into my first ever home. I was 17 a month before my 18th Living on my own scared and petrified while I was going to college, it was a support system house for young people expect I was the only one there. With time it got really good and I enjoyed it, things were very stressful at that age I was paying bills washing my own laundry doing the electricity and gas bill paying rent at 17. I hardly even knew about things like this and was always scared that if I didn't pay these bills on that exact date they'd evict me straight up, but I had support workers so it was more of a relief when they helped me with this stuff. Fast forward January 2020 I am 19, getting ready for my first ever council flat. This was when things took a huge turn in life. I was by myself. Had only my mother for a support system but it was stressful and I hardly understood what I was doing. I'd receive mail from Bill companies and when u move in a home they always backdate things for you to pay when u missed late payments etc. Took me 1 whole year to understand this and how it works but by February 2021 (20) I finally got hang of it. I liked it but as time went on I was feeling very unhappy I didn't like where I was living. Things were changing. People were passing away and I was getting older realising that my teens were spent on working on moving out and paying bills and sorting things out and appointments and stuff like that was my real world. I had loud neighbours all they would do is play loud music all the time. They would party all day and all night and my anxiety was through the roof I couldn't Watch TV or play on my video game so I would go to the bathroom sit on the floor and use my earphones and put them In to block sound out. And sit there and be upset. So by 2022 December being age 22 i was stuck with such bad news that my mother's fiance had sadly passed away from (TW) Suicide. This hit us hard. I only spoke to this guy 2 hours beforehand and he was gone. It took a turn on me for the worse as it did my mother too. So I chose I was gonna move in with her give my only apartment up and support her so she wasn't alone. This all happened by January 2023 and I've been here since. Its taken a toll on me and I've recently gotten more worse with how my feelings are and my stress levels are through the roof i can never stop stressing or worrying or when I'm left alone I instantly start freaking out. I know something is wrong with me but I am unable to be checked in my country as men over 21 can no longer get help from where I am. Not sure about anyone else but I'm worser than ever and my health is also deteriorating at 23 years old too. So I just thought id share my life experience so far. 
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Being 23
by modorange07
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more Why does being in your twenties feel so weird? Why does it feel like any time you mistep your life is over or that you're running out of time? I'm 23 and I'm so overly cautious about wasting my life and it's horrifying
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Hello
by sociableHuman660
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more How do I control my bpd ?

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