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Shared Experiences!♡
by Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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February 26th
...See more Hey hey, everyone coming across this post. I hope you're doing well. 💛 Grief and loss, is something I feel most of us have experienced in different forms, with varied intensity of emotions, thoughts and emotional reactions to it. As earth-shatteringly difficult it is to experience loss of some kind and do not even get me started on loss of a love one hehe (oh but I definitely will come here too💛), or cope with it, I feel something that remotely, I say remotely because I'm not much of the opinion that anything ever truly helps or fills the void in your life and the hole in your heart! (Much love to you if you feel the same and Kudos to you if you found something that helped you in any way💛). Again, I feel something that *remotely* helps is that we aren't alone in our experiences! It's not like "seeing someone else in pain makes you feel better about yours", more like "seeing someone feel what you do, say what you cannot and understand what you find incomprehensible somewhere, somehow, in whatever small quantity possible too, makes you feel *seen*, makes your pain feel seen, reminds you that what you experienced is 'worthy' of a reaction from you, also helps you understand your feelings better, because sometimes you're not even sure what to really call that 'sudden feeling of a big lump forming in your throat when you're sitting around people giggling and doing their thing' when everything feels 'okay' around you". (Apologies for getting carried away haha, I'm not proof-reading this one, and it's just something straight from my heart, hopefully to yours, typos included😅) Anyway, circling back again, what I find remotely helpful is the idea of shared experiences, of people connected in their grief! Which is why I love reflecting on how someone perceives loss and grief for them, hearing what they have to say about it too! Sometimes it's these shared experiences, heart felt words and raw emotions that remind me I'm not alone, and a lot of times, this is comforting to know! Going forward, I'd like to share some quotes I find comforting with the hope that anyone coming across them here can have a little "oh you see it too?" moment, knowing they aren't alone either and someone has had experienced something as they have and stood by to share it with the world also. The massive amount of courage it takes to talk about it, to relive all of it all over again, to be *brave* for comforting someone else! Most people may not even realise how inspiring they are! 💛 Please feel welcome to share any quotes you like that provide you comfort or reflect on any you see here also! 💛
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Grief & Loss Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
January 15th
...See more Welcome to the Grief & Loss Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 9 September (updated by @tommy) @azuladragon34 @Char1984 @CordialBeing @GentleCalmness @HealingTalk @Jaeteuk @LeonardoMarino @mish3l @mytwistedsoul @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @tommy
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Grief Support Session Resumes!
by ASilentObserver
Last post
January 6th
...See more Hello all,  I want to inform everyone that we'll have a Grief Support Session starting this Saturday, 19th of October, at 8.00 pm ET time zone in the Support Session group chat. All are invited to join and participate to explore & discuss the experiences and emotions related to grief. @CaringEzra will lead the sessions. Listeners who are experiencing grief are also welcome to join and participate from their member accounts. We look forward to seeing you there! Note: If anyone like to host some support sessions, please do send me a pm at @ASilentObserver Any and all help will be much appreciated. tagging some of the friends: @Jaeteuk, @Happy2Help18, @reallyoverallofit @jonghyunnie, @BlueDarkAurora, @mytwistedsoul 
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Grief and Loss Support Check-in *March 3 ~ March 10 2025*
by CaringEzra
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2 hours ago
...See more Grief and Loss Support Check-in  March 3 ~ March 10 2025 Hello, lovely grief and loss support community! Welcome to our weekly check-in.  How are we all doing? I hope that the week is being gentle to you and you find time to take care of yourselves.  I often hear the phrase that you have to move on or get over grief, but i'm not sure that we actually do (if you don't relate that's okie!) Grief doesn’t have a finish line. It doesn’t expire after a certain number of months or years. I think sometimes people expect it to shrink until it disappears, like a wound that fully heals. But for me, it’s more like learning to live with a missing piece.The world keeps moving forward, and in some ways, I do too. I laugh, I make new memories, I experience joy. But that doesn’t mean I’ve left my grief behind. It lingers in unexpected moments, a song playing in a store, a joke they would have loved, an anniversary I wish I didn’t have to mark. It’s shaped into who I am, shaping how I see the world, how I love, how I carry others with me. I will always miss them. I will always love them. And I think that’s okay. Grief isn’t something to "get over." It’s an extension of love, and love doesn’t have an end. Sorry for the ramble 😛  Whatever you are feeling, it's welcomed and valid here. I am always here for you and you are not alone. Please reach out if you need anything at all, You are loved and cared about truly. I wish you all an amazing week ahead. <3 •───────•°•❀•°•───────• I would love to welcome you to participate in some reflection questions!  Our weekly check-ins are an opportunity to get to know each other a little bit better and offer continual support. Feel free to answer as many or as few as you would like. Also, feel free to share anything on your mind or just say hi! Whatever you post; we eagerly await your response! •───────•°•❀•°•───────• Here are some reflections for the week ❀ How are you doing? Highs? Lows?❀ ❀ In what ways has grief shaped you or perspective on life❀ ❀ What is one thing you would do if you had the superpower of  invisibility? ❀ •───────•°•❀•°•───────• We hope you all have a wonderful week. I look forward to hearing everyone’s responses, and please don't hesitate to reach out for support.
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Grief and Loss Support Check-in *March 10 ~ March 17 2025*
by CaringEzra
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4 hours ago
...See more Grief and Loss Support Check-in  March 10 ~ March 17 2025 Hello, lovely grief and loss support community! Welcome to our weekly check-in.  How are we all doing? I hope that the week is being gentle to you and you find time to take care of yourselves. I think that this week's reminder is that no matter how long time passes, it's okie to still grieve. Grief comes in waves and sometimes it comes up very unexpectedly. This week it's gonna be my birthday, and it's so hard knowing that it's another year, another milestone that they are not here for. It brings a wide range of emotions for me. So when you feel this way, I hope you give yourself some grace and patience.   Whatever you are feeling, it's welcomed and valid here. I am always here for you and you are not alone. Please reach out if you need anything at all, You are loved and cared about truly. I wish you all an amazing week ahead. <3 •───────•°•❀•°•───────• I would love to welcome you to participate in some reflection questions!  Our weekly check-ins are an opportunity to get to know each other a little bit better and offer continual support. Feel free to answer as many or as few as you would like. Also, feel free to share anything on your mind or just say hi! Whatever you post; we eagerly await your response! •───────•°•❀•°•───────• Here are some reflections for the week ❀ How are you doing? Highs? Lows?❀ ❀ Fill in the blank “Grief is like….”?❀ ❀ If you could invent a Holiday, what would you celebrate? ❀ •───────•°•❀•°•───────• We hope you all have a wonderful week. I look forward to hearing everyone’s responses, and please don't hesitate to reach out for
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Julia Who I Love
by GreenLime3141
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5 hours ago
...See more I miss Julia. I love her.
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💜 Welcome to Grief and Loss Community 💜
by CaringEzra
Last post
7 hours ago
...See more Hey lovelies,  How is everyone doing? I wanted to extend a warm welcome to the Grief and Loss Community.  A little about our lovely community: This is a caring and safe place to share your thoughts and feelings arising from the loss and grief of any kind. These experiences may have occurred very recently, in the distant past, or any time in between. Your experiences and feelings are valid and we would love to listen and support you. You are invited to tell your story, write about your emotions, and also support others. We would love to get to know you better: ✨ Please introduce yourself and if comfy let us know a fun fact about yourself! ✨ Info that might be helpful as you explore our community:  💜 How do I navigate the sub-community? You can find a handy guide here [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SU1-CqJ4zlgbIJGww9TQhtkl8EtEha3pqYDQAGK_6ac/edit?usp=sharing] on how to find your way around our forum. 💜 What is a tag list? Tag lists allow us to keep you updated with any important or exciting threads (such as check-ins, updates etc) by notifying you. You can add yourself to the tag list here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/StudentCareerSupport_114/SubcommunityTeam_850/StudentSupportAutomatedTaglist_204108/1/].   💜 Guidelines for forums? Interested in the forum guidelines, find them here [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/] 💜 New to 7cups? No worries we got you covered! We are so happy to have you here. You can find welcome packets here: Members [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1M53Nm5-pbtxx2_jKfXYgYzo3NgXxjNfMwfzVSRC1rZg/edit?tab=t.0] and Listeners [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit?tab=t.0] 💜 I’d love to join the team. Where do I start? We’d love to have you on our amazing team. You can find some info here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/]! 💜 I have another question… Post it down below and someone will get back to you (:
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Space to talk about your loved one
by CaringEzra
Last post
9 hours ago
...See more Hey lovelies, I hope you are all doing well!  Today I wanted to give you all a space to talk about your person.  I don't know if you have noticed but other people sometimes get weird after someone dies! And I totally get it, we don’t know what to say, but in an effort to not wanting to bring up emotions, they never bring up the person that has passed and it can be awkward to bring it up yourself. Now everyone's experience is different, but for some, including me, I want to keep my dad and friends' memories alive. I don't want to forget them. There are times that I want to talk about them, to share their name, how much I love and miss them, and to talk about who they are as a person. Not everyone has a person or a safe place where they feel comfy talking about their person.  So here is your safe space. Tell us about your person. If you are feeling stuck here are some questions to get you started! Pick three! Or answer as many as you would like:  ❤️ What was your person's name? 🧡 What activities did you enjoy doing together? 💛 What's your favorite memory of your person? 💚 What were they like? 💙 What were their favorite foods? 💜 What did they believe/ care about most? ❤️ What was something they were really good at? 🧡 What do you miss most about your person? 💛 What is something they taught you that you still carry with you? 💚 What were their favorite songs, books, or movies? 💙 How did your person die? 💜 What were your last moments together like? ❤️ Is there anything you wish you told them? 🧡 How was your favorite day spent together? 💛 How would you describe their personality in three words? 💚 If you could spend one more day with them what would you do? 💙 What has been the hardest part of living without them? 💜 What do you love most about your person?
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gut feelings or manifestation?
by anonyHuman933
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11 hours ago
...See more For months already I was always scared of bad things happening to anyone I know and horrible thing happened. Whenever something good was happening I always felt something bad will happen, did I manifested bad thing by being paranoid that something bad will happen? It’s like I’m scared of living now, idk like is so unpredictable
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Life sucks
by anonyHuman933
Last post
11 hours ago
...See more Everyday I get more convinced that life isn’t worth living, and having “hope” or thinking positive everyday doesn’t change anything either, “ohh 2025 is my year!!!” Yeah no! I’m so sick of thinking like that but still bad things happening.
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My older children haven’t seen me in over 11 years
by crimsonPenguin2489
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12 hours ago
...See more I went to see my son yesterday he was at his friends I gave my aunt my number and she said it’s his decision I’ve been trying to get involved in my kids life for about a year now none of them want anything to do with me!!!!
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Willow's processing thread :') (tw for d3@th on hospice)
by WanderingWillow2008
Last post
2 days ago
...See more I'm just writing this post as an introduction. I am processing watching my best friend of 11 years die. I'm Willow, and I'm 17. My best friend, who was 17, passed away in January, and I'm having a hard time processing his death. He was a year older than me, and I just can't help thinking that he'd be turning 18 in June, he'd be graduating high school, and in September, he'd be starting nursing school. But that's all gone. He never got to do those things. He was terminally ill with cancer; his last few days were awful. I watched him breathing raspily, I watched as he let out whimpers of pain despite the medication he was getting hourly to make him comfortable. I held his hand as he took his final breath. I numbly watched as the hospice nurse pronounced him dead, his mother's painful sobs. I kept telling myself he was comfortable, but after I got my CNA as he encouraged me to, I saw that he really wasn't. I don't talk to anyone, I just exist, I feel so lonely, I've distanced myself from our friends because all they do is talk about him, and I just can't. I can't talk about him, talking about the good things doesn't make things any easier. I just don't even know what to do anymore, I'm burying myself in my studies, my work, and writing my novel, but I just want to feel okay again. I feel like I'm on the verge of a collapse. The pain is suffocating me and I can't breathe...
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Grief and Loss Support Check-in *February 10 ~ February 17 2025*
by CaringEzra
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Thursday
...See more Grief and Loss Support Check-in  February 10 ~ February 17 2025 Hello, lovely grief and loss support community! Welcome to our weekly check-in.  How are we all doing? I hope that the week is being gentle to you and you find time to take care of yourselves. Sending extra love your way this week. Sometimes life can feel very lonely, but you are not a burden and you are cared about. I hope you reach out for support this week. You are deserving of support and comfort during this time. I know asking for help can feel scary and feel uncomfortable, but it will be okie. Whatever you are feeling, it's welcomed and valid here. I wish you all an amazing week and year ahead. I am always here for you and you are not alone.<3 •───────•°•❀•°•───────• I would love to welcome you to participate in some reflection questions!  Our weekly check-ins are an opportunity to get to know each other a little bit better and offer continual support. Feel free to answer as many or as few as you would like. Also, feel free to share anything on your mind or just say hi! Whatever you post; we eagerly await your response! •───────•°•❀•°•───────• Here are some reflections for the week ❀ How are you doing? Highs? Lows?❀ ❀ What is your favorite memory of your person? ❀ ❀ What's your favorite way to start the day?❀ •───────•°•❀•°•───────• We hope you all have a wonderful week. I look forward to hearing everyone’s responses, and please don't hesitate to reach out for support.
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Passage for that someone...
by LunarTheTherian
Last post
Thursday
...See more ⚠Warning: This passage contains motions of suicide, loss, spirits, etc. If any of these things bother you, please click off of this tab.⚠ The day went off without her I wasn't here to see. The rest of the earth, full of life Seemed to move on just fine without her. Of course, nobody knew her but my family, she could easily be replaced to those people, but not to me, my family, her friends. Everyone here is lonelier and sadder now that ur gone. I hope your doing okay though. Seeing us like this is probably pulling your strings as well,  seeing the whole family like this pulls mine too. Although you may be gone to them, You will never be gone in my heart. I will stay in touch with you, even if I cant hear you Because who needs hearing, I know your listening anyway. I can feel your presence watching us. And I'm glad you are Please keep check with your sister though. I'm worried about her. Dear Autumn, I miss you a lot. I'm trying, taking slow but sure steps in the correct path not to forget, but to remember the times we had, to forgive the people who made you do it, and to move on. Sending love to you and the others. "You never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory."
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It been 16 months seen my dad died
by countrygirl9988
Last post
Thursday
...See more Been journey of grief for last 16 months learn so much like my family has changed we not that closed anymore my brother got his own life to live and my mom live her life for herself and me take better care of myself my health and the relationship with my man is most important thing in my life I have realize I am strong women everyday I miss my dad everyday I live my life for me my dad in my heart and my thoughts always I realize my dad want me live my life not be sad but be happy I got half life left to live my dad legacy live on throught me,my brother and my niece and my nephew he was best dad and greatest grandfather in the world he alway be in are heart forever 

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