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Weekly Prompt #3: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity
by ASilentObserver
Last post
 February 25th
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are all well. Last time we discussed, What one piece of advice would you give to your younger self? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGBTQMOGIISupport_58/DiscussionsandResources_2305/WeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416/] In today's prompt, I want us to take a minute of reflection and share what was the journey of coming out looked like for you. The prompt: What helped you understand and accept your sexuality/gender identity? What was that journey like for you? Share your thoughts with us. Join us in the LGBTQ Support Chat today! [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyYhttps://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mmRpeXyVlOJO42uXVVyY] ------------------------- [http://twitter.com/share?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F&text=Weekly+Prompt+%232%3A+W+%407cups] [/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.7cups.com%2Fforum%2FLGBTQMOGIISupport_58%2FDiscussionsandResources_2305%2FWeeklyPrompt2Whatoneadvicewouldyougivetoyouryoungerself_302416%2F]
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Strengthening Our Community: Listening to LGBTQ+ Voices
by Heather225
Last post
 February 23rd
...See more In these challenging times, we want to remember our commitment to inclusivity and support for all members of our diverse community, especially our LGBTQIA+ folks. We believe that everyone deserves a safe and supportive space to connect, share their experiences, and find the help they need, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or any other identity. 7 Cups is built on the foundation of empathy and understanding. We strive to create an environment where everyone feels welcome, respected, and heard. We recognize that the struggles and triumphs of the LGBTQIA+ community are unique and deserve specific attention and support, particularly in the face of current events. We are dedicated to providing resources, fostering understanding, and amplifying the voices of our LGBTQIA+ members. We know that allyship is an ongoing process, and we are constantly learning and growing. We encourage open and honest conversations about how we can better support our LGBTQIA+ community within 7 Cups and beyond. We value your feedback and insights as we continue this journey together. To all of you within our LGBTQIA+ family: What can the community do to better hear and support you during these difficult times? What are some things you wish allies understood? How can we express this? What would you like the community to know about LGBTQIA+ and beyond? Please answer any of the above. Your responses will be packaged up in a new post dedicated to community awareness to ensure we, as a collective community, are doing right by one another.
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Standing Together with Our Trans Community 🏳️‍⚧️
by Heather225
Last post
 February 4th
...See more There's a lot of uncertainty and unrest in our world right now and for anyone who may be suffering right now, either as a trans person or anyone on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, my heart goes out to you. Please know that you are not alone. You are loved, you are valid, and you deserve to live authentically and safely. I hope that you can take comfort in our community and lean on us. We are stronger together. Be it a virtual shoulder to cry on or a distraction from the negativity, we've got you. You belong here. Let's all try to be there for each other during these very challenging times. Message your trans friends, let them know you're thinking of them, and let's do what we do best: listen.  Stay hopeful. We're gonna get through this. Sending you all my love and support. ❤️ 
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Is This Normal?
by raccooncutie30
Last post
 59 minutes ago
...See more When I read or hear about straight couples having premarital sex, it makes me feel nauseous. Does anyone else feel this way? Am I asexual or am I just a prude?
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Making friend :3 cause I don't have many 😸
by redDime3082
Last post
 23 hours ago
...See more Hi everybody! My name is Quibli. I recently joined seven cups and I am very interested in making friends! I am here for support and/or just chatting. I am Bi/non-binary/asexual. I like animals, nature, baking, reading, playing drums and loooots more. Im so happy I'm here!!! 😁
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Reaching out for help.
by KTheDeal
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more I'm 30yrs old, gender fluid, & I prefer them/they pronouns. I feel extremely embarrassed to put myself out here like this, but I don't know what else to do, hopefully nobody makes fun of me, or puts me down because of my situation. My life is in shambles at the moment. I'm struggling very badly, & I'm wondering if anyone can help me out? Anything will help. I suffer from severe mental health issues (I've been diagnosed with multiple mental illnesses, if you message me directly, I will go into greater detail), which has affected my ability to work. I cannot function when faced with the everyday stressors that normal people encounter. I have been hospitalized multiple times for my mental health issues (I have proof of this), I am on a number of medications, & I will be starting Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT) in the next week or two.  I also have some medical issues that I deal with, which includes a heart condition. I have filed for disability, & gotten a lawyer. My hearing is two months away. I've been struggling to get by, & I clean houses to make money when I can get business, & my mental health will allow it. Some of the medications (and some procedures) that I'm on are not being covered by my insurance for whatever reason. I have made call after call trying to figure out the issue pertaining to my insurance, & why I'm having to pay out of pocket for some of this stuff. One of the medications they aren't covering now (they covered it before, only to turn around, & start making me pay out of pocket) is my heart medication. I really need this medicine, I spent an entire year in & out of the hospital because of my heart condition. I dealt with syncope, as well as other problems before I got on my heart medication. I often found myself bedridden for days at a time, hardly able to move. Another medicine that they're refusing to pay for (I've submitted an appeal for all of these things) is my injection I get monthly, this helps me manage my depression. If someone could please help me out, I'd appreciate it more than you'd ever know. I don't have anyone else to turn to for help. Again, hopefully I don't get laughed at, or called pathetic for this. Edit. I added proof, I have $0.83 to my name. $BlackHeartSoCold
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Gender and sex
by Youssef1122
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Hello everyone in this community  I your opinion what's the difference between gender and sex? 
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Gay and Growing Old
by amicableCat3401
Last post
 Friday
...See more Anyone else really struggling with getting old(er)? I am a male and will soon turn 60. I’m in complete denial that I’m not the 30-something year old my brain still thinks I am. Not dealing well with the physical, emotional, and mental aspects of aging. Anyone else going through this?
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Looking for like minded friends!
by AmburLeigh
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more I am non-binary, pansexual and poly. Have a husband, bf, 5yr old son, and 2 dogs. I suffer from bipolar and anxiety. Would love to talk about self identity/sexuality, relationships, parenting, mental health, and just about anything else!
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Married & Questioning – Navigating Without Hurting Anyone
by Mike126
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more I’m in my late 30s, married, with a child, and only recently started questioning my sexuality. For most of my life, I assumed I was straight, but over the last few months, I’ve felt something shift, and I can’t ignore it anymore. It’s confusing, exciting, and honestly a bit terrifying. I want to be clear that I love my wife and don’t want to hurt her in any way, shape, or form. This isn’t about acting on impulse or doing anything behind her back. I have already spoken to her about making connections in the community, but I haven’t told her exactly where I stand yet, because, truthfully, I’m still figuring that out myself. I need to understand who I am, what this means for me, and what space I want to occupy in the world. Right now, I don’t know exactly what this means. I feel drawn to exploring it, but at the same time, I worry about what this could mean for my life. I guess I’m just looking to hear from others who’ve been through something similar, especially if you started questioning later in life. If anyone has been through this—figuring things out while in a long-term relationship, navigating attraction later in life, or just generally understanding their identity—I’d love to hear how you handled it. I appreciate any advice or perspectives!
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Reaching Out for Friends
by neatOrange7785
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more Hii I am a 23 years old. She/her. Humans are social beings and I am coming to terms with this aspect. So here I am being all sappy seeking human connection. I love ghibli movies and books. P.S. I love thrillers. The spectrum of my conversational skills ranges from  random stupid banters about literature, conspiracy theories or books to deep conversations about life. I like slow living and I am trying to live in the present (and I am miserably failing). So hey stranger...What moves you and what is your favorite book/books. Hope we become good friends... (smiley face)
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Why deny
by toughPunch
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more having a fetish is not a reality
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Questioning My Sexuality and Relationships
by RidingTheRiptide4
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more Hello all! I originally came here for lgbtq+ support but couldn't find it at first lol. I'm not sure how to summarize this but I'll try! Since I was young I identified as pan, which to me meant loving everyone for who they are not what they identify as (if that makes sense). Currently I have a partner, when we got together she was a trans woman. About a year into our relationship she decided that it would be more beneficial if she went back to her deadname and he/him pronouns, I supported him. Then again she was a trans woman. Then reverted to he/him and went into the marine corp. Then while in his schoolhouse told me she was a trans woman again. Now he's back to he/him and legal name. This doesn't bother me one bit, I still love my partner. Recently we hit a rough patch and I find myself missing how our relationship was, I realized what I miss was how he treated me and acted when she went by Sophia. He would be kinder, softer, more open and affectionate. It could be that he sees these things as feminine so when he's presenting as a man he doesn't do these things but that's what I love and want in the relationship. I've had other issues as well (NSFW) that leads me to believe maybe I'm lesbian? Or pan with a preference to femmes? (if that's the right term) My partner is my highschool sweetheart and the last time I dated a femme was jr high, maybe it's my lack of experience with women/fem presenting people? I'm really confused and I don't want to talk to my partner yet because I'm afraid it'll put more stress on him and trying to figure out his identity and that is the last thing I want. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :) (If anything in here is inaccurate or offends anyone pls let me know! That is not my intention)
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You Are Valid, You Are Strong, You Are Loved 🌈
by Heather225
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more Your identity, your experiences, and your feelings are all real and worthy. No matter what you may hear or see, never forget the strength and resilience within you.  We know that navigating the current global climate is challenging to say the least, but please remember that you are not alone. There is a community here that supports you, celebrates you, and believes in you. Whenever it gets tough in your life around you, or you begin to doubt yourself, just come back to this post to remind yourself that you are valued just as you are.  And never stop fighting. I believe in you. I believe in us. 🤝 LGBTQ+ family: How do you identify? Feel free to share in the comments!
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Relationship and family
by hopefuldreamer334
Last post
 March 2nd
...See more Today I told my stepmom that my “friend” who I’m going on vacation with next month is actually my boyfriend. It all happened so fast and I’m regretting my decision to tell her but I guess it had to come out someday. My family already knows I’m bisexual and they’re honestly not the most accepting people around. They have said pretty offensive things in the past but they know not to say it around me now since I live with them. It all came up because I told her I was going on vacation next month for my spring break. I was telling her how I secured a cheap cruise and a cheap Airbnb since I’m on a budget cause I’m a student. She was telling me how that’s nice and that it’s worth it to go. Then she asked if I was going with my friend, because she knew I went with him on my last vacation. I told her yes and then, I don’t know why it just came out, I said “he’s actually my boyfriend, but he used to be my friend.” Her response was a high pitched “mhmm” like acknowledging it and then she turned around and didn’t say anything else. It got super awkward silent so I left. I had stood there for about two minutes after finishing the dishes like I had been and then I left because I really expected her to say something else and she just didn’t. Maybe she was in shock? I don’t know. But it definitely didn't seem like the reaction I was hoping for. My mom already knows about him and she’s been supportive about it at least to my face, I don’t know what she’s said behind my back. But my dad and stepmom didn’t know at all. What sucks is that she’s met him at my last birthday party and my dad and her suspected we were more than friends. They asked my sister if she knew anything and she denied it because she knew I wasn’t ready to tell them. However they had their suspicions and my sister told me that but also said they don’t care at the end of the day. I don’t know how to feel, I guess I just felt very emotional about it because of her reaction, or lack of one. I guess it just hurts.

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

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Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General Support:  Struggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


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LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


Help… I still have a question!

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1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

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1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


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